It seems I've rattled a couple cages with my ~How Is It Possible~ post.
I received two anonymous comments that implied my views are self righteous and unchristian. Wow, interesting comments. I expected reaction to that post but to be honest, I didn't expect the comments I received. I expected reactions that were similar to the shock I felt when I learned about how little help goes the poor children in the United States. I'm curious about what prompted those reactions. What was it about my post that caused people to view me as self righteous and unchristian?
In the first comment, anonymous said "I don't really see the logic in your idea that it is more noble/valid to help someone just because they happen to share citizenship with you." Well, I didn't say it was "more" noble/valid to help those in the United States than in other countries. My post highlighted the fact that billions of dollars are being donated to help people in other parts of the world while the poor in the United States are virtually ignored. It makes me wonder if the people who donate to world health even know about the problems here - If they don't know, then we need to tell them - If they do know, why aren't they doing something about it? I truly believe it is noble/righteous/valid (or whatever you want to call it) to help anyone in need - no matter who or where they are.
The second commenter said, "I too believe it to be narrow minded and unchristian like to only help people who are in America." Did I say that we should only help our own? No, I did not. I said "All I know is that we need to take care of our own first. From now on, every donation I give will be to help the poor in MY country - not someone else's." I clearly said we need to take care of our own (then take care of others). My point is that our impoverished children need help as much as those in other parts of the world - I did not say we only need to help those in the United States.
The second commenter went on to say about Oprah's school for girls in Africa, "You don't see the same passion in American children as you do when you watch the girls from South Africa." I can't argue that point. But where do you think educational apathy comes from? Rank reflects leadership, so are we right to blame our kids for being apathetic, when we (in general) place so little value on education? How can we expect our children to be enthusiastic about their education when some of our schools (especially those in poor areas) don't have the tools and support they require? Is it the students' fault if they're apathetic because of substandard teachers and learning environments? A child will rise to the expectation placed upon him or her, so if we don't expect our children to succeed (and give them the tools to do so), will they do so on their own? If we want to abolish apathy and motivate our children to do well in school, then our children's education needs to be a priority in this country. If we don't care, why should they?
2 comments:
While I'm sure it's an accident, I find it amusing that your "Let's Have a Dialogue" post has no way to leave comments. So I'll leave mine here... I wrote the first comment here, and what sparked my reaction is that you said "part of my anger is that the rich and famous are donating billions to charity- in OTHER countries." and "All I know is we need to take care of our own first."
Why?
Why do we need to take care of "our own" first? Don't starving kids in other countries count as "our own", in terms of the larger picture of humanity? If not, what are the guidelines of determining what "our own" is to you, and why does it apparently stop at the boundaries of the USA? Are there other tiers of preference, regional, gender, etc.?
Maybe it doesn't read the way you wanted, but phrases like this: "From now on, every donation I give will be to help the poor in MY country - not someone else's." (as well as the others I quoted) reek of superiority and Amero-centric snobbery.
It's fine to prefer to keep your donations within this country, but to be "angry" that other people are targeting their funds elsewhere is ridiculous. Perhaps you'll criticize me for donating to the Humane Society because it helps animals instead of needy American children? People find a cause that speaks to them and donate money, and to criticize it and get angry because it doesn't fit your idea of what is "most worthy" is absurd.
3:12 PM
Anonymous, your inability to leave a comment on this post was indeed an accident and I apologize for my oversight. I wanted to also thank you for bringing it to my attention, and I have made the appropriate corrections and comments should be allowed on this post now.
I'm not angry (as you suggest) that other people are targeting their funds elsewhere. I am angry that the issue of poverty in the United States seems to be one that is swept under the rug and the children who suffer in this country seem to go unnoticed while billions of dollars are being sent to other parts of the world. You are absolutely correct in that people are free to donate where they choose, and I hope that everyone donates something to help someone.
If people donate their funds to other parts of the world because they are unaware of the problems here, then I'm angry that more people don't know about the problems here. It's not a self righteous indignation so much as it is an indignation born of frustration because things like this shouldn't be happening in the United States of America. Something is SERIOUSLY wrong with our system and I for one, have no clue where to begin to fix it.
If people know about the problems with poverty in the United States and choose to donate elsewhere, that is their choice and I have no right to be angry because where they spend their money is their business, not mine.
So perhaps I should rephrase my point to say that I am angry that the issue of poverty in America isn't as important to our government and our media as poverty in the rest of the world.
By the way, I love animals, donate to the Humane Society, and dearly hope we all do something to help them as well. :~)
Jody
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